Love and Marriage

This past weekend I was in radford to see my friend get married. Her and I have been friends since freshman year, we're both in Mu Phi and we were room mates our last year in school. Its really interesting to see a person i guess you can say go from one phase into another, its what scientist call 'growing up', I should try that. Anyways it was a beautuful ceremony you can tell they really loved each other, ive been to a few weddings and sometimes you really can't tell, sure they're happy in the moment, but being happy with each other is whole 'nother thing. So of course being at a wedding gets all the single ladies the thinking about marriage, me included in some sense. I dont see myself taking the plunge. Being almost 25 never been on a date or been in a relationship love or marriage is a figment of my imagination. I hear people talk about it but to me it is intangible its like Bigfoot. Yeah love is like Bigfoot, people make claims about it all the time, you see its foot prints, every once in a while someone comes with 'evidence' showing its real but its a hoax. Now I would like to end this post on a high note. I have not totally abandoned the idea that this thing exists. Im sure it does, I know it does, I saw it this weekend. Maybe someday someone will come along and be my Bigfoot, till then I rather enjoy being by myself. You have to love yourself before any one else can.